Monthly Archives: October 2013

Superficiality

Here’s a thought: it’s ok to be superficial.  Though I think you have to be honest about it.  Sometimes this means that you’re a jerk, but sometimes it means you know what you’re looking for and what you care about … Continue reading

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Clarity vs Underlying Assumptions

A couple of days ago, I went on a date with this guy and got the impression that he was looking for something long-term, while I had been clear that I was only looking for a fling.  And even if I’d been … Continue reading

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Heteroflexible

I’ve been thinking about my sexuality lately.  Not in a “must figure this out” kind of way, more in a rambling kind of experimental way.  Due to circumstances, I can date whoever I want right now, and I’m in an … Continue reading

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Put on Pause

How do you put aside a relationship, tie it up with a bow in a pretty little box?  Like a chocolate for safekeeping, hoping the ants or the mice don’t get to it while it’s sitting on your pantry shelf. … Continue reading

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