What do you get out of being in a relationship? What makes it worth it, ever? What do you want me to do for you – what do you expect me to do for you?
What does communicating mean to you? What types of things to you think should be talked about/communicated about in a relationship? Is there anything that shouldn’t be discussed? Why?
What types of problems do you expect to come up in a relationship? Anything you don’t expect? If you expect nothing, why? What is your general mode of operation when a problem comes up? How do you deal with it? Why?