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About mybodymystory

Looking at things differently. I write about my personal experiences with society, especially regarding what messages I, as a woman, have received over time. I write about my body, not the body the media thinks I have or wants me to have. I write about my responses to sex, relationships, and political issues. This is my story of my body. There are a lot of things I write about that I believe overlap with other women. Come check out my story and see if you agree. Feel free to disagree, just be respectful about it.

#BlackOutDay

Originally posted on ShoutOut! JMU:
Today, March 6th is #BlackOutDay. The campaign aims to celebrate black beauty and fight against negative and damaging stereotypes that are often perpetrated by the media. “We’re asking black people to share pictures, videos and GIFs…

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Was Anne Frank Bisexual?

We do not know that Anne Frank was bisexual – we do not know how she would have labeled herself. Co-opting her as a bisexual figurehead is wrong since she was not one. It’s possibly even creepy since she was a child, barely even a teenager, when she was writing her diary and when she died.

But should we discuss that bits of her diary were removed in order to be more “appropriate” for the masses to read? And that those bits were things that might have implied her sexuality? Hell yes.

We’re reading her diary. We’re reading something that was never meant to be shared. And we’re reading it as required reading in high schools across the country and possibly even around the world. Think of that. Her most personal thoughts and feelings are being read in an English/Literature class near you.

And if we’re going to do that, we better damn well read her story. Not the story that someone else wanted told, but the story that she told. The story that includes things that may imply that she wasn’t quite straight. If we’re going to invade her privacy – for whatever reason – then we better not lie when we do it. Continue reading

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Friday Reblog – Yes, Squirting is Real (And it’s not pee.)

This Friday reblog isn’t from WordPress, so it’s not the automatic reblog link, instead I’m linking the title below.  I’m posting it as a contrasting opinion to my last Friday reblog (which wasn’t actually last week, but I’m busy, oh … Continue reading

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“Squirting” during sex is urine – new study

Originally posted on Dr. Jen Gunter:
There has long been a controversy about female ejaculation and by this I mean large amounts of fluid or “squirting” during sexual stimulation/orgasm. Some women lubricate very well and there are secretions from the…

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Period Tracking Apps – A Review

I have had a number of period tracker apps downloaded onto my tablet for about a month now. I started with the idea that I wanted to track not just my period but other things such as vaginal discharge, symptoms like cramps, and life occurrences such as stress.

As such, I decided to download all the period trackers in the Google Play store that were free and had more than 4 stars. That ended up being more trackers than I originally thought – and there also ended up being more crappy trackers than I thought. I then organized them all in order of “is this even worth downloading” to “awesome” and will share mini reviews of my favorites…. Continue reading

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You Are Not Entitled to Friendship.

Having been absent for this week otherwise, here’s a Friday reblog. Despite being an allosexual alloromantic person, I agree with this completely. I’ve been doing reading about poly relationships lately, and more than just my sexual/romantic relationships, it’s made me … Continue reading

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We Need More Women in High Tech, Dammit!

Originally posted on Random Blather:
Jordan from “Real Genius”, who I adored (Image courtesy of the Cult Film Club) Note: This is longer than my usual blog-post.  It’s on a topic that is both complicated, and one I think is…

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