Category Archives: Orgasms

Power Relations in Sex Positions part 1

There is this idea floating around society and the media that the “giving” position in sex is powerful and the “receiving” position is weak. Normally, that correlates to men being in the “giving” position and women being in the “receiving” … Continue reading

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Can’t get it up

This one’s for the guys.  Or rather, it’s a girl’s perspective on a guy’s issue and what it means to me in my situation. For this post, I’m going to relay my current understanding of what it’s like for guys … Continue reading

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Girls Wanting Sex

Lately, I’ve been having conversations with my boyfriend about initiating sex.  But I’m not going to start there. I’m going to start with one of the radical ideas I had for starting this blog – that contrary to popular belief, … Continue reading

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Orgasms Part 2 – Multiple Orgasms

Remember the definitions from last week?  How they mentioned muscle contractions?  Well, turns out that’s a key component of having an orgasm.  What the definitions fail to mention is the fact that it’s not always a “tense up, have climax, … Continue reading

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Orgasms Part 1 – What is an orgasm?

For my first real post, I’m going to start with one of the main reasons I made this site to begin with: a presumed difference in my sexual libido from every other mainstream woman’s.  Mostly I’m going to talk about … Continue reading

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